November 27, 2009
Dear BJ,
I got a pretty cool job as a entertainment lawyer and I'm dating a smoking hot blonde chick. I'm pretty sure she's only with me for the perks of my job. I don't buy her expensive gifts or crazy things like that but we do go out to fly spots and the sex is crazy good, at least for me... should I continue this relationship even though I think she's only with me cause of what I do.
Mark S
Mark S,
Listen to your question and you'll answer this one yourself... you described her as "a smoking hot blonde chick" but you neglected to describe her personality attributes. That shows what YOUR interest is in her. Basically you're with each other for shallow reasons. You both are giving and getting what you're asking for. If you're thinking of taking her serious then stop now cuz if she starts with you for this reason she couldn't possibly care for you in the proper way... she'll always have this underlying reason. Now that doesn't mean she can't fall in love with you at some point but it does show her intentions and what kinda of person she is... You can't trust that. Also you aren't really into her, you are with her for arm candy... so who cares why she likes you... enjoy snoggin her while it lasts dude. Before she meets an actor at one of your parties and takes off with him into the bathroom to light it up & forget you were ever alive.
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Dear BJ,
Why don't girls count ALL the guys they ever had sex with when you ask them that?
Drew U
Drew U,
The same reason Bill Clinton said "I did not inhale." It's simple.... people cant handle the truth! If we told you the real number you wouldn't understand, respect or desire us the same. Don't say that's not true because you're obviously only asking us because it DOES matter. duh! These double standards we so blindly and stupidly live by show ladies NO mercy! See my little kushcake to fully answer this question I'd need more time or room than this column provides me. In a nutshell, guys.... stop judging your ladies until you look in the mirror an judge yourself! Then maybe we'll want to be more honest with you.
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Dear BJ,
What do u think about guys who say they're not gay but they've had oral sex given to them by guys!?!
Larry C
Larry C,
Ok my little fruitcake, as a woman I already had my own opinion about this, but still had to get the opinion of 1 gay and 1 straight male friend of mine to even the playing field... so here were their responses: Straight man: "He's Gay." Gay man: "He's in the Closet." Is that crystal clear enough for you my dear sweet fudge packer?
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Dear BJ,
Do you have a favorite football team?
Terry H
Terry H,
Dallas Cowboys Baby!
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Dear BJ,
Would it bother you if a man called you a little slut or a whore while you were having wild sex?
Timothy
Timothy,
Depends whether or not it would bother him to get cracked in the grill or not...
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November 03, 2009
Dear BJ,
What is the sexiest trait in a man?
Sammy
Sammy,
I'd have to say six packs are hot but those arent permanent, the only thing nobody can take from you is an education... Remember that my young stunnas! A man interested in educating himself and learning something new everyday is sexy as H-LL and will have that appeal forever! Brains are definitely important... oh, and size DOES matter! :)
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Dear BJ,
I took a girl out to a party one night, but we lost each other... I looked for her for a couple hours, the place wasn't that big & I couldn't find her anywhere. I called numerous times, text, twitter & nothing, so I left. Was I wrong for that?
Ryan
Ryan,
Hmmm. Ok, the truth is my darling... she ditched you. Nobody gets lost at a "small party." Dust that ish off your conscience because next I'm going to get a letter from a girl asking if it was wrong for her to hide from a guy she wasn't feeling at a party. She's gonna say she feels especially bad because he used every possible form of communication aside from telepathy to try to contact her before he got the point. I'm sure you're a nice guy and that wasn't cool on her end... but karma is a force of nature and one day you'll be shopping at the dollar store and see her with 4 kids and a preggo belly, roots to her shoulders, wearing house shoes and a moo-moo... and you'll smile and that will be that. ;)
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Dear BJ,
What's your favorite sex position? why?
Christina
Christina,
I'm curious as to why you wanna know how I get down in the boom boom room... but alright, I'll answer that. First I want to say please me smart, always use protection! Ok now, I'm a virgin so I don't ree-eally know... ha ha ;) but I would guess it depends on the guy... every man has entirely different anatomy with different angles and shapes and obviously sizes. Women do also... so depending on the puzzle piece the man is holding compared to the one his misses got, she would need him to position himself slightly differently during penetration to melt her ice cream, you feel me? In short, "different strokes for different folks."
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Dear BJ,
I fuckin hate school. I go to UCLA & its actually a fine school but I just hate school period. I have to go so I can get my inheritance money from my grandma. I'm on a tight budget until I graduate. I'm only a freshman now, what should I do to kill my time here?
Max
Max,
I say make sure your major is something that you're honestly interested in. Education is a wonderful thing and if you're blessed enough to have help while you work your way through and even after, don't take it for granted. I understand if it's something you feel obligated to do it can definitely feel tedious... but think of it this way, even if you don't make a carreer out of your major, the fact that you have a degree (in anything) will be very beneficial to you in the future. Also my dear Heir... I find nothing sexier than an educated, confidant man! Intelligence is an aphrodisiac and that comes in handy during and after you graduate college! ;) Oh yeah, college girls are excited.. fresh and explorative... enjoy that while you still can and your juevos haven't shriveled up yet! ;)
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Many of my closest friends call me BJ which stands for my real name Brittany-Jo. I've been a close friend of the Kush Boys for many many years now. And over the years, I've given them advice on money, work, business, fashion, relationships, girls, sex, etc... I've also fed them, told em what to wear, even let em crash at my Kush Girl mansion plenty of times. One in particular uses my bathroom much too freely... but anyways, when they ask me if I could answer questions from all the Kush Boys & Kush Girls around the world, I told them I'd be delighted to! So here I am! Feel free to ask me anything & I promise to be as truthful as I possibly can. Just like my philosophy in life, nothing is off limits!
Love, peace, kisses & kush,
BJ ☮ ♥ ツ
